Online spread · 4 cards
Spread for a man
A four-card spread about a specific person: what he thinks of you, what he feels, what his intentions are and how you should act. It is most often done about a man, but the spread works for a question about anyone.
“What does he think of me” spread layout
- What he thinks of you — His thoughts and attitude on a rational level.
- What he feels — His feelings for you.
- His intentions — What he wants from the relationship.
- Advice for you — How you should act.
How to interpret the spread
Before the spread, picture the person as clearly as you can — his face, his voice, your last meeting. The first card shows what he thinks of you, the second what he feels. Sometimes thoughts and feelings don’t match: a person may be drawn to you but still have doubts, and that is an important answer too.
The third card shows his intentions: a serious relationship, casual interest or distance. The fourth is advice for you. Remember: the spread shows how the person feels about you, but it doesn’t give you the right to decide for him — use the answer to understand yourself and your next steps.
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- 4Near-future spreadWhat the coming weeks hold and what to pay attention to.
- 6Relationship spreadYou, your partner, the bond, the obstacle, the outlook and advice.
- 13Year-ahead spreadThe theme of the year and a card for each of the twelve months.
- 10Celtic CrossThe classic 10-card spread for an in-depth look at a situation.
Need a quick answer?
For a simple question, try a one-card Yes or No Tarot reading or draw your card of the day.
Frequently asked questions
Can I do this spread about a woman?
Yes. The positions work for anyone: think of the woman you’re asking about and read the answers as “she” instead of “he”.
Why do the thoughts and feelings cards contradict each other?
This happens often: a person may feel attraction but have doubts in their head — because of circumstances, past experience or insecurity. Look at the intentions card: it will show which side wins.
Is this tarot reading free?
Yes, all spreads on the site are free, with no sign-up. Your question stays in your browser and isn’t sent anywhere.
Are reversed cards included?
Yes, by default a card can come up reversed — this makes the spread more accurate. If you’re used to reading with upright cards only, uncheck “Include reversed cards” before you lay out the spread.